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.: baptists gettin’ jiggy with it…

March 31st, 2007 by Amanda Weaver

Tonight Ryan and I had the delight of dancing the night away. No, we were not trying out the local club scene, and we weren’t chaperoning a prom. We were at Allen Memorial Baptist Church’s annual Spring Fling dance. That’s right folks the baptists had a dance.

It is so refreshing to be a part of a church who believes that we aren’t limited to board games, and softball teams for having fun together. Our pastor, Bill Warren, got out there and did the twist with the best of ‘em. We danced to Elvis, The Rolling Stones, Frank Sinatra, and even some Lynard Skynard. It was just a great evening of fun.  

I am looking forward to next years dance. Knowing more people will make it even easier to get out there and cut a little rug. Ryan and I were both a little apprehensive as the night began, because we didn’t know what to expect or how people would react. But after having such fun tonight, I fully expect that next year Ryan will feel free to do his “Weaver white boy dance.”

I truly believe that it brings pleasure to the heart of God when He sees His children enjoying each other. I have no doubt that we honor Him when we romance our mates and invest in our marriages. I am also reminded that David danced before the Lord as an act of worship. All of these things happened tonight in the lives of those who attended AMBC’s dance. How unfortunate that thousands of baptists (and other Protestant-types) avoid this form of fellowship in order to feed their desire for piety and religious-rule-keeping.

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.: opening day…

March 31st, 2007 by [r]weaver

 

MLB Opening day 2007...

 

I know this is some uncharacteristic back-to-back-sports-blogging… but the moment is perfect to bring “America’s past-time” back into the spotlight on the [r]weaverBLOG.

Opening Day for the BIGs is tomorrow (Sunday the 1st)… and Monday for the Rangers and Nationals.

Manda and I had hoped to get things perfectly aligned up so we could make the trip to RFK Stadium to attend Opening Day in D.C. with the Nats on Monday… but we were just not able to force things to come together for that to become a reality (at least not at this point… I’m still efforting).

While we are living on the Eastern Shore, we have decided to embrace a couple of the local sports teams… like the Nats… and probably the Redskins (because I have respected Joe Gibbs for quite some time… while also simultaneously hating the Cowboys)… and maybe even the Ravens (because Manda likes their purple uniforms… and Ray Lewis’ pre-game dance).

ESPN2 will be featuring the Rangers road-opener against the Angels… and you can rest assured that we will be watching with our family jerseys on… right after we catch Jack Bauer’s latest world-saving, super-human feats.

Alrighty then… back to the Final Four watching…

  

PRESS ON!!!

-Weav

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.: weav’s nfl draft predictions…

March 29th, 2007 by [r]weaver

NFL Draft 2007... 

 

.: 2007 NFL DRAFT TOP TEN PREDICTIONS :.

1) Raiders: JaMarcus Russell, QB LSU
2) Lions: (TRADE… another team drafts…) Brady Quinn, QB ND
3) Browns: Joe Thomas, OL Wisconsin
4) Bucs: Calvin Johnson, WR Georgia Tech
5) Cardinals: LaRon Landry, S LSU
6) Redskins: Gaines Adams, DE Clemson
7) Vikings: Leon Hall, CB Michigan
8) Falcons: Jamaal Anderson, DE Arkansas
9) Dolphins: Levi Brown, OT Penn State
10) Texans: Adrian Peterson, RB OU 

 

.: WEAVER’s NOTES :.

.: Why only “TOP TEN”? Because I don’t have as much free time as some might think… and due to the fact that I only care to predict to the point that effects me most: the Houston Texans top pick.

.: I believe that there is “some” chance that the Lions’ GM Matt Millen will take another receiver with their top pick… but there is a much greater likelihood that they will trade down with this pick… or just take Brady Quinn as the next “Joey Harrington”.

.: Concerning A.D. (Adrian Peterson) falling to number 10… I am confident that this is simply my own wishful thinking… for two reasons… 1- A.D. will most likely be drafted by the Browns or someone else before he makes it to the Texans #10 pick… 2- The Texans might pull a “Heisman” and stiff-arm another potential franchise running back (read: 2006 NFL Draft… Reggie Bush) and all of their fans (read: ALL SEVENTEEN OF US WHO ARE STILL LEFT).

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.: a 5 o’clock routine…

March 28th, 2007 by Amanda Weaver

Nature vs. Nurture… is my son drawn to sports due to his genetics… or due to the exposure?

At first glance one might assume that Ryland is watching one of his FATHER’s regularly watched TV programs on his favorite network, ESPN. But let me assure you that he is not. Ryland is watching one of his MOTHER’s favorite TV programs on ESPN… “Around the Horn”.

I came into my marriage having never CHOSEN to watch ESPN. But through repeated exposure… (no, let me revise that to… constant exposure) I have come to know and love all things ESPN.  I try to watch “Around the Horn” daily. I began my love for this show when Jay Mariotti and Woody Page were racing to reach 100 wins. I always root for Jay… and I always root against Woody. Unfortunately my son is exposed not only to the intelligent ramblings of Jay, but also to the idiotic spoutings of that bafoon Woody Page. As you can see in the picture above, he is captivated by the nonsensicle arguments of Woody… I am ashamed to have exposed my son to such utter stupidity.  

But back to the point… The love of all things athletic was not something I was raised to have. I naturally enjoy competition. I played AYSO soccer in my early elementary years…. but I really hated running so that didn’t last very long. As I got older I was encouraged to play sports and enjoyed practicing (I would say playing, but I was a natural bench-rider throughout my HS years). Sports were never a passion for me until I was nurtured into loving them through Soper High School’s sports focused atmosphere… and a husband who loves them passionately. Somehow I think that I was created to love sports, it just took a while to get over my aversion to running.

I desire to see my son grow to share this love with both Ryan and I. He will certainly be exposed and offered every opportunity to learn and develop through sports teams, and competitions. He will also be exposed to many cultural, musical, and academic activities. It is “in the cards” for Ryland to be the point guard on his basketball team, act in numerous high school plays and musicals, sing and play guitar in a worship band, and end up being a minister. None of those things will surprise or (more important) disappoint me. However, I know the possibilities for Ryland are vast. So… Ryan and I will require none of our preconceived notions of what Ryland could be, but we will instead trust the God (who created athletics, academics, and art) to shape Ryland’s passions. 

So to conclude my present thoughts on the nature/nurture debate, you can add me to the list of fence-riders. You cannot separate them. God does whatever He wants with whomever He wants. Not one of us can escape our genetics, our heritage, or our environment. It is a beautiful collision of elements set into motion by The Author of this great Story.

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.: deep enlightenment from Jack Handey…

March 28th, 2007 by [r]weaver

 

Deep Thoughts...

 


I was encouraged this morning with some deep enlightenment from an unlikely source. Jack Handey will be remembered as one of the great theologians of our generation. Hopefully these quotes encourage you as much as they encouraged me…

.: “When Armageddon comes, it would be good to be an Olympic athlete, because running real fast and jumping over stuff could come in handy.

.: When you die, if you go somewhere where they ask you a bunch of questions about your life and what you learned and all, I think a good way to get out of it is just to say, ‘No speaka English.’

.: “Think about world peace; while you’re doing that I’ll be over here stealing your stuff.”

.: “I can picture in my mind a world without war, a world without hate. And I can picture us attacking that world, because they’d never expect it.” 

.: “As the light changed from red to green to yellow and back to red again, I sat there thinking about life. Was it nothing more than a bunch of honking and yelling? Sometimes it seemed that way.”

.: “If when you die you get a choice between pie heaven and regular heaven, choose pie heaven. It might be a trick but if not mmmboy.”

.: “Once my friend told me that he had found Jesus. I thought to myself, ‘WooHoo, we’re rich!’ It turns out he meant something different.”

.: “If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think a cute thing to tell him is ’God is crying.’ And if he asks why God is crying, another cute thing to tell him is ‘Probably because of something you did.’”

PRESS ON!!!

-Weav

 

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.: and some folks say he’s up there still…

March 24th, 2007 by [r]weaver

 

Jeremiah Johnson...

 

There was a classic movie on the tube today that provided some excellent father-son bonding for Rylz and I… “Jeremiah Johnson”.

It’s a classic flick that celebrates the wild-ness of men… and plays on the desperation for adventure and exploration and freedom that has been implanted in the heart of all humanity. This appeal is thick throughout the script… even up to the last line… which served as the inspiration for the title of this blog.

In the midst of an abnormally busy Saturday (which provided an opportunity for me to catch my first Lacrosse game as I watched one of my students named Ragan Ringer run around with her field hockey stick named “Wilma”…) I was flipping through the dish channels, seeking a soundtrack for some wrestle-time with Rylz (while Amanda was catching her first muscial on the Eastern Shore that featured another of our students… Mitchell Melton as Nibs in Peter Pan… and then practicing with the AMBC Drama Team for a skit that they are performing tomorrow).

Flipping through the Backyardigans’ and Veggie Tales’ and Aqua Teen Hunger Force’s and the myriad of solid NCAA hoops action… I was caught off guard by seeing “Jeremiah Johnson” as an optoin to add to the list. My mind spun back to memories of watching Robert Redford fight to survive the wilderness of the Rocky Mountains with my Pops (on repeated occasions) as we wrestled on the floor and dreamed of adventures like Jeremiah’s.

So I stopped on the channel… and re-lived the same interaction with my son.

Chico and I watched every moment of Jeremiah’s epic struggle together… and we wrestled… and we laughed… and we talked about the unknown journeys that he and I will take together… and we dreamed about the unexpected adventures that Abba Father will unveil…
                         …after Chico learns to walk.

 

PRESS ON!!!

-Weav

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.: promised adventure…

March 23rd, 2007 by Amanda Weaver

 

Assateague Island is a new adventure spot for the Weaver Fam. We took our first excursion with the Thompsons last Thursday. The island promises to be a place where many adventures will be found and created. Ryan can’t wait to let the air out of the Jeep’s tires and head out onto the beach… many reckless moments will be encountered by Ryan and Ryland at Assateauge Island. They will undoubtedly be accompanied by moments of tongue biting for me (Sometimes I won’t be able to stop my mother’s heart from holding back the wild men in my life, but I try to understand and encourage the wild hearts God placed in Ryan and Ryland).

This barrier island that spans from southern Maryland to northern Virginia (called Chincoteague on the VA part) is confusingly beautiful. The terrain has aspects of woodlands complete with feral horses (not wild horses cause they were brought from Europe and are descendants of domesticated horses), yet looks like a desert in places, contains fine white sandy dunes and beaches, and has swamp like areas. I found myself grasping to understand its beauty based upon other places I’d been. I tried unsuccessfully to place it in a neat little category of like places I’d seen before. But there was no such category. 

Sometimes I face this same dilemma when God allows me to see glimpses of His overwhelming beauty. I try to relate it to previous experiences or reduce it down to something I understand. But you can’t reduce the captivating beauty of Christ. You can only relinquish your self-centered perspective and revel in the Holy.  We must experience and stop trying to understand. Abba will provide the wisdom and discernment through our relating to Him.

I am longing for our next adventure at Assateague… there is so much to explore and experience. Here are a few kisses of beauty I captured. May you all enjoy God’s creation as I have.

 

 

 

 

 

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.: 8 down 4 to go…

March 22nd, 2007 by Amanda Weaver

8 down 4 to go till chico reaches the big uno!

Ryland has become very mobile within the last few days. He began crawling officially on 3/17/07. He goes back and forth across the living room within moments. He’s got Ryan and I jumpin’ around moving things out of reach. A few of his favorite no-no items include an acoustic guitar, Ryan’s cell phone, my laptop, the TV controller, and anything resembling a string or a chord. Ryland does respond to “No”, but he forgets quickly what he wasn’t supposed to be doing. Which is to be expected at this stage in his journey.

Chico also started pulling up and doing some cruising on 3/20/07.  Rylz is also climbing up on the couch, and on Ryan and I whenever he has the chance. This, of course, has made life so much fun, and little nerve racking at times. Our son is so close to toddling around… I feel like my baby is no longer a baby. I know I have got a long way to go, and I cherish each moment of his adventure, but those calm cuddly moments are greatly missed.

We have finally found a Pediatrician for Ryland after a very frustrating search. Ryland’s first appointment with Dr. Cooper was on 3/19. He is a woderful Doctor. He engaged and interacted with Ryland with great compassion and understanding. We are very pleased with his knowledge and delivery of information to us. Though we are saddened to have left Dr. Kalil, God has guided us to a man who will care for our son just a well.

At the visit Ryland got his third round of shots. His wieght was 20 lbs & 11 oz (he is in the 70th percentile… meaning he wieghs more the 7 out of 10 kids his age). His hieght is 28 3/4 inches (this puts him in the 90th percentile… taller than 9 out of 10 kids his age). Dr. Cooper described him as “tall and skinny, but strong as an ox”. He also discovered that Rylands front/bottom/left tooth is ready and will break through in a couple of weeks. We are definately seeing the effects of teething. Ryland has been waking up around midnight wanting a bottle and his dose of tylenol. Hopefully we’ll see that pearly white  very soon.

Thanks to all of you have been praying for Ryland as he crawls, cruises, and climbs through these exciting days of his adventure.

 

 

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.: an email from a friend…

March 22nd, 2007 by [r]weaver

 

An email from a friend...

 

 

Many of you have the priviledge of knowing Jeffrey D. Woodard. The following is an excerpt from an email that I received from him this week. Jeffrey has been an adopted brother, close friend, and cherished mentor in my journey with Christ for many years now. In sharing this small portion of our email correspondence, I pray that Jeffrey’s prayer in these words will impact your heart as much as they have impacted mine.

Read in reverent peace.
Enjoy the humble reflection upon His Grace.
Worship the One Risen King as you pray the Truth in these words.
May our hearts connect “across the skies” in the resonance of the Lord’s redemptive movement among the nations.

 

PRESS ON!!!

-Weav

 

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“Dare I correspond across the skies without giving acknowledgement of their owner?  I think not!  Permit me a closing thought as I recount the richness and the depth and the completeness of God’s grace.  Whether walking far or near, His love is ever before me.  He and His Love are all around.  Whether sharing in the fellowship of His suffering or feasting on the finery of the flesh, my heart is aware and in need of Him.  Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forevermore.  I am frequently overwhelmed with the tsunamis of His love and limitless loving kindnesses.  At times I am on the frontline of the battle wielding the Sword of Life and others, bottling up tears of brokenness.  In the midst of my sin, sorrow, supplication and surrender, I completely resign that He is loving me.  My soul in His sway is framed about in wholeness and completeness.  ‘Where shall I go but to the Lord?’  Who has ever heard of such Healing Oil, Refiner’s Fire, or Eternal Fatherhood except in Christ Jesus?  I know of NO such love, nor do I know of a more worthy Battle Cry than to take up my cross and follow Him.  May He, The Mace of Majesty and the Plurality of Peace guide your spirit and your faith into an encounter with His Love Altar.  May that Encounter change what you know and believe about Him.”

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.: journey to God in a hippie van…

March 19th, 2007 by [r]weaver

 

Thru Painted Deserts...

 

.: Through Painted Deserts by Donald Miller :.

Truthfully… I had no stinkin’ clue what I was getting myself into when I picked this book up two weeks ago. The cover said that the author’s name was “Donald Miller”… and that was enough for me to pick it up… buy it… and read it. The journey that followed (from Houston through Oklahoma City to the Grand Canyon to California and finally to Oregon)  in a 1971 VW Hippie Van was one that revived my passion to experience some of the amazing sights that the United States of America has to offer.

Amanda and I have been re-inspired to speak some of our previously unspoken (or unfortunately underspoken) goals and plans to backpack, climb, scuba dive, explore, drive, swim, camp, surf, and travel all over this great country. I am sure that our adventures (and plans for adventure) will be well-chronicled over the next few weeks and years. Until those “Weaver adventure chronicles” start crankin’… pick up Donald’s journey… a re-write of his very first novel… and enjoy…

 

+ Weaver’s favorite “Through Painted Deserts” quotes:

     -”I could not have known than that everybody, every person, has to leave, has to change like seasons; they have to or they die. The seasons remind me that I must keep changing, and I want to change because it is God’s way. All my life I have been changing… Everybody has to change or they expire. Everybody has to leave, everybody has to leave home and come back so they can love it again for all new reasons.” (p.X from the Author’s Note)

     -”I went to Walden Pond a year ago, just to see and feel the place, just to walk alone around the water, and they’ve made a suburb out of it. It hurts to hear the traffic rolling through the trees. People commute from the land of Thoreau’s solitude to Boston, to work at banks, to work at law firms. And I wonder if Walden exists anymore. I am not talking about the real Walden, the one in Boston; I am talking about the earth God meant to speak before we finished his sentence.” (p.4)

     -”Trouble leads to question and question leads to prayer.” (p.70)

     -”We drive around in a trance, salivating for Starbucks while that great heaven sits above us, and that beautiful sunrise is happening in the desert, and all those mountains out West are collecting snow on the limbs of their pines, and all those leaves are changing colors out East. God, it is so beautiful, it is so quiet, it is so perfect.” (p.76)

     -”It confuses me that Christian living is not simpler. The gospel, the very good news, is simple, but this is the gate, the trailhead. Ironing out faithless creases is toilsome labor. God bestows three blessings on man: to feed him like birds, dress him like flowers, and befirend him as a confidant. Too many take the first two and neglect the last.” (p.90-91)

     -”These mountains, which have seen untold sunrises, long to thunder praise, but stand reverent, silent so that man’s weak praise may be given God’s attention.” (p. 253)

     -And I recommend that you just bust out and READ ALL OF CHAPTER FIVE… it is GREATNESS… and way TOO much for me to quote here. Read it in context of the journey that we are all travelling together… to God… and enjoy the love of His Light…

 

PRESS ON!!!

 -Weav

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